Who The Fuck Is Nerdlette?
Because I have so many “personas”, I needed a little something that wrapped all of us up into one nice neat little package. Because of the nature of my work, I use a different name and online identity. I’ve done that for years and I have my reasons for doing so. Deal with it. However, more and more the “real” me and the “online” me have mingled and mixed. The two worlds are starting to blend a bit. So whether you know me as the “brilliant web mistress and marketing guru” or as “the dorky mom who lurks in the shadows”, this blog sums up pretty much every part of me.
I’m often mistaken for being stuck up. I’m really not. I can be shy at times or just simply have nothing to say to people. I tend to be blunt and most people don’t like that so I just keep my opinions and thoughts to myself in most social situations. I have a temper and can be a vicious bitch when needed, which is rare. However, I consider myself to be a great friend to those I care about. I’m protective of those I love and adore.
I work in the adult industry. No, not as a pornstar. I have a knack for networking and marketing and helping to develop various adult sites, whether its webcams or solo models or whatever else. I am my own boss. I have an incredible team of individuals that I have come to love and adore over the past few years (designers, coders, server gods, and more) that I consistently work with. I love my work. I love the freedom it gives me. Prior to working in this area, I was in the legal field … and while I love law, I’ve found that this is where I belong. The money is great, but not my motivation. It’s a genuine passion for what I do.
I’m a mom. I don’t like to discuss the spawn much simply because I don’t think that belongs on the internet. We have our special challenges. But we’re strong. Nuff said.
I’m single. I hate dating. However, I decided to break into this area recently and have been pleasantly surprised by the presence of Mr.Mark as of late. It’s very early in it’s stages. We’ll see where it goes. I’m a very guarded person when it comes to men. But yeah, I have trust issues. Who doesn’t?
I’m very sexual. No, I’m not a slut at all. In fact, I am quite the opposite. I believe in being safe and sane. I’m picky. I don’t bring men in and out of Spawn’s life. I’m loyal to the one I love (when in love hehe….and that’s been a LONG time!). But yeah, with the right partner, I do have a kinky side. I’m not goin to go into details, but I do love the darkside. I do love a man who can cater to both that darkside and to my romantic side as well. I’m diverse. I love to try new things. I love to be challenged. I love a man who can get inside my head as well as my pussy.
What I Like?
- - intelligent conversation
- - people, situations, and things that make me laugh
- - coffee (seriously, I’m addicted)
- - animals (even the slimy ones)
- - being outdoors
- - the gym
- - reading (mostly James Patterson)
- - technology and nerdy stuff and gadgets
- - coffee (did I mention that yet??)
- - orchids (roses are overrated people!!)
- - piano and violin
- - a man who can sing (melts me)
- - twisted senses of humor (yes, I laughed at 2girls1cup!!)
- - my new Mac
- - traveling
- - old people (especially my Gramma)
Things I Don’t Like?
- - moths (seriously, they freak me out!)
- - smoking (icky icky)
- - being too hot
- - racists (hello, the Spawn is half black)
- - ignorant people who can’t back up their arguments
- - people who try to sing and can’t (thus why I am NOT an American Idol fan)
- - people who feel sorry for themselves
- - tomatoes, broccoli, peppers, and asparagus
- - materialistic people and people who think money makes you better as a person
- - a certain jerk at the gym
- - the entire Lohan family
- - bad coffee
- - alcohol or how it makes me feel
- - obnoxious drunk people (i love funny drunks though!)
- - nostril pimples
- - sci-fi stuff (books, shows, movies, etc)